Since quite long, I have been seeing a trend of questions on this topic from people who are either getting married or who have darker skin tones. So, first of all, I would like to say that you can’t really lighten the skin complexion. The skin color is determined by the amount of melanin your skin has and you can’t do anything to reduce the amount of this pigment inside your skin. Ok, after that bit of science, I would like to say that you can do somethings to preserve your original complexion.
So, my friend is getting married and soon. Well, I have given her many many advises, most of which she chooses to ignore. She is making a worse bride than me!! She is hardly going to the parlor coz she is acne-prone and says that facials do not suit her.
Buy only what YOU Like without looking too rude!!
Do not forget the medicines kit
For Acne-prone and Oily or Combination Skin
Think about Honeymoon and plan beforehand without getting stressed
Go and take care of your Skin
So, these were just some of the tips I shared with her. There were lot more but those were situational. So, I would discuss them later on. What advise would you give your best friend for her wedding and does she listen to you?
You might think that how can a bride not have makeup? How will a bride look like one? But, in my wedding, there was literally no makeup on my face! Only the two rituals before that, I had got makeup done which I honestly hated but thankfully the snaps are not glaringly aboard!
So, yup, I am gonna give you all the juicy details of the night. Make sure parental discretion is ascertained and you are above 18 years of age. As I mentioned in some earlier post, the pandits find some muhurtam/muhurat for this as well. Trust me, its pretty embarrassing.
Ok, when your parents and in laws drop you into the honeymoon suite, its pretty weird and that was how it was for both of us. But, let bygones be that. We ordered for dinner and proceeded to the balcony for a candle light ambiance. And, then…..I fell!!! Huh…did you think I will ruin you children?
Btw, tomorrow I am getting rid of the chooda. Don’t get me wrong, I love them. Everyone loved them, in fact, just for the fact that the chooda was so different here and gives the perfect bride-sy look. But, they got so heavy and I think I got the smaller size so I could wear only half of my chooda. Will narrate the story later. In short, I am not able to do any regular works with them on my hands and worse still I can not reach my back to clean it 😀
I look around and wonder why do people look at a married woman differently? She might look better dressed, maybe wearing an ornament or two, that mark her married. But she’s still a girl at heart, sindoor and bindi don’t make her a woman. She may be still learning how to run a home, she still might be struggling taking care of not just herself but two and more people, she might not always like to hear ‘what does your husband do’… Marriage doesn’t suddenly turn a girl into a woman. For that matter having kids doesn’t necessarily do the same either. Celebrate who she really is, celebrate the child in her, she may be anyone around you, ur friend, ur sister, ur mother, a total stranger. She’s not supposed to be responsible for innumerous things, countless chores, it’s just her desire for perfection that she does what she does. This is for every wonderful woman I know. Grow up… but take your own sweet time & let the li’l girl in you live forever. And for all my male friends… cherish her, spoil her and most importantly let her be… She wasn’t born to take care of you, it’s her heart that makes her do so.
I always wonder why people take it for granted every man has got to or try to show upper hand…Real meaning of marriage is not just meant a complete transformation of one another or getting a promotion.Its equally the same feeling for a guy just like a girl feels..marriage is all about understanding ones own self and be like 2 minds in setting a boat to smooth sail..Even guy has to loose many things..he develops additional qualities of being possessive, in every walk he takes…thinks of other persons without him… his life is complete…See regarding the point of doing chores and taking care of u…marriage will get ultimate essence of living…when a kid is born it does not mean she has to bear him or do all his chores….it’s the ultimate feeling for a women that cant be described nor can be measured…So god has set up the knot called marriage solely being..for doing any thing hard mind us required…but doing at right time…patience is required to enjoy the fruit of success..likewise patience symbolizes woman and hard mind symbolizes man..unless they both combine…success will not be the fruit..In short it’s not about adjustment or single heart…its about 2 souls sharing everything…(censored :D)
Also, I would like to share with you a very beautiful article on marriage. Do check it out!! And, this post is my entry for Indiblogger Platinum Day of Love Contest.